The rush that steals your life

Viggo Mortenson

“One of the best pieces of advice I ever got was from a horse master. He told me to go slow to go fast. I think that applies to everything in life. We live as though there aren’t enough hours in the day but if we do each thing calmly and carefully we will get…

The strange thing is that rushing often wastes more time.

The rushed decision creates another problem.

The rushed job needs doing twice.

The rushed conversation creates a misunderstanding.

The rushed life creates exhaustion.

A calm person often gets more done than a frantic one.

Not because they work harder.

Because they waste less energy.

They focus.

They pay attention.

They finish one thing before starting three others.

There is power in doing one thing properly.

One conversation.

One task.

One walk.

One day.

Many people spend their lives feeling overwhelmed.

Not because they have too much to do.

Because they are mentally carrying tomorrow, next week, next year, and every possible problem all at the same time.

No wonder they are tired.

A mind was never designed to live in ten places at once.

Life happens one moment at a time.

One decision at a time.

One breath at a time.

The older you get, the more you notice that some of the happiest people are the ones who have slowed down to pay attention to now.

They listen fully.

They eat without rushing.

They notice things.

The birds.

The people they love.

The small details everyone else races past.

They understand something important.

Life is not an obstacle course standing between you and some future destination.

Life is the thing you are rushing through.

That ordinary cup of coffee.

That conversation.

That walk home.

That quiet evening.

Those are not interruptions to life.

They are life.

Many people spend decades sprinting toward tomorrow.

Then suddenly discover tomorrow arrived years ago.

The children grew up.

The parents grew older.

The opportunities passed.

The seasons changed.

And they were moving too fast to notice.

So slow down.

Not because you have less to do.

Because your life is too valuable to experience at high speed.

Take care with your work.

Take care with people.

Take care with your attention.

The goal is not to race through life as quickly as possible.

The goal is to arrive at the end knowing you were actually there for it.